welcome back girl. okay, so we’ve gone through the dos and don’ts of who’s supposed to be your bridesmaids. Now let’s discuss the process of building a bridal trail, who to choose and why. When choosing your bridesmaids, consider these factors:
- Numbers matter: The size of your bridal party is a personal decision. Think about the scale of your wedding and your desired level of support.
- Family ties: Decide if you want to include family members. While it’s a personal choice, ensure everyone feels included and valued.
- Roles and responsibilities: Clearly outline expectations for your bridesmaids to avoid misunderstandings.
- The ‘ask’: Make asking your friends to be bridesmaids a special moment. A heartfelt request can strengthen your bond. We’re going to explore how to do the “big ask” with your bridesmaids in later editions but for now, let’s talk about some of the challenges you could face when building your bridal squad.
Overcoming Challenges
It’s natural to encounter challenges when planning a wedding, and the bridal party is no exception. Here are some tips:
- Open communication: Truth is, there will be disagreements. you may think that you’re the only one under pressure, but you’d be wrong. Everyone is feeling the tension, so there needs to be open and clear communication so no one feels overwhelmed. Address any issues or concerns directly and honestly. This will help build trust and unity especially if not everyone in your squad is the closest of friends.
- Setting boundaries: One thing you do not want is to let anyone feel like they’re overstepping, or not doing enough. You need to establish clear expectations for everyone involved. Let everyone have an idea of what they are there to do, this creates clarity and gives space for organisation.
- Focus on the big picture: Remember why you chose these women to be by your side. Let them do their thing. do not try to micromanage everything. You definitely do not want to be a Bridezilla ok (LOL). Just relax and let them do their thing. Focus on the big picture.
By carefully selecting your bridesmaids and fostering open communication, you can create a bridal party that will make your wedding day truly unforgettable.
If you’re wondering about the qualities to look for in a bridesmaid, check out our previous issue, we talk about the qualities of a good bridesmaid So dive right in.
Meanwhile, let’s talk numbers …
How Many Bridesmaids to Have
The number of bridesmaids depends on personal preference and the size of your wedding. Consider factors like your budget, the size of your wedding party, and the roles you envision for your bridesmaids. Remember, the most important thing is to choose people who genuinely care about you and your special day.
Including Family Members
Whether or not to include family members in your bridal party is a personal decision. If you have close family members who you want to honour, consider including them. However, it’s essential to maintain a balance between family and friends to ensure everyone feels included and valued.
That’s all we have for you today but do stay with us, we have amazing things coming up Friday.
